VISIT THE PAGES / topics hard to find elsewhere

Monday, December 31, 2012

2013: The truth is going to make us beautiful.

SwayamBlog wishes for a Year 2013 of Truth, Love and Joy: 
Sat-Chit-Ananda. 
As one may see... Sat comes first.
«They said, "These are the teeth of Buddha."...
There's no vibrations, I saw it, it was nothing. I can understand hair, or nails, but His teeth are everywhere being worshipped.
I know my Sahaja Yogis cannot spoil much of Sahaja Yoga. If they do, they will lose their vibrations. So be careful on that!
But with ego, I've seen people even they lose their vibrations: "No I'm all right, oh, I'm getting all the vibrations, I'm all right, and here is such a big..." 
Befooling yourself is the job of ego, so be careful: "I'm all right, nothing wrong with me."
On today's great occasion, let us think of the hazardous time He (Buddha) had and the way He has created for us this Sahaja Yoga.
That we are bathing in the light of their (Incarnations) compassion, their hard work, their dedication, their sacrifices, all that.
The truth is going to make us beautiful.
May God bless you.»
1989, Buddha Puja, Spain, last lines.

Thursday, December 6, 2012

""the untruth is easily accepted""

"...So, the truth started long time back, much before anybody could think of having a truth here. It's all went off with so many things which were not truthful and then the truth went away.
Like, I would say, that the snake... snake was born out of ignorance that the other snakes started supporting. 
Snakes after snakes, they started growing up and filling the whole universe with dishonesty and with wrong ideas and believing in it and started fighting, killing each other. But they were all snakes.
So how much one should believe in their nonsense? How much one should follow their nonsense? How much anybody should accept their nonsense? 
It's very difficult. But it is acceptable much more than the truth. 
The truth is not so very easily accepted as the untruth is. 
Why?
- Because we are standing in untruth. Our own understanding is untruth and we'll have to change our understanding to truth, which is not difficult because we are truth. 
To become the truth, which we are, why should it be difficult? Should not, but it happens
...should not...
So that means there is something wrong somewhere within us, which we should find out. 
And the thing that is wrong with us, within, is that we cannot face ourselves. 
We cannot face ourselves. 
We face others, not ourselves. We never see ourselves. We have no idea as to what our own situation is. 
And for that is only you needed a Mother - to show you..."
2004-0606: Adi Shakti Puja, Cabella:
Thanks to:Evgeny Bezeka 

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

An innocent child knows the protocol

First of all, we should see that how our conditioning takes over our innocence. It makes you extremely ritualistic. Even in Sahaja Yoga, I’ve seen, I’ve heard also, that people are extremely, extremely ritualistic. Now the ritualism is like this: that you have to say something three times, you say it three times, seven times like tied up people. I’ve seen some Sahaja Yogis like that. ...
So one should understand a difference between a protocol and ritualism. An innocent child knows the protocol. ... So for children, you see, innocent children, the worship, everything is not ritualistic. It is heartfelt. You feel it from the heart: how to do the worship, how to show your love. Is very sweet way an innocent person does it; while a person who is very ritualistic, he may even beat another person because, “Why did you do this? You should not have put camphor in it? Why did you put the camphor so? It's very wrong.” There’s nothing wrong. If you do it with your heart, with your open heart, innocently, anything is all right. It is the open heart which is necessary, not the closed heart — “Why did you do it? Why didn’t you do it? Where did you sit? What happened?” Nothing.
Now you are in the Kingdom of God and here there are no such rules and regulations that you should be ritualistic....(Shri Ganesha Puja 1993)

Quietness within, peace within, that’s very important. If there is peace you will grow. There’s no other way out. But you see, all this ritualism, sometimes giving bandhan all the time or raising Kundalini all the time and people even would like to see the table if it has vibrations, you see. That’s going too far. There’s no need to do all that nonsense. Sahaja Yoga is sense, it’s not nonsense. ... (Talk in Armonk , New York , 27/7/88)

Is not necessary to have this ritualism, this kind of a rigmarole. Oh, all the time you go in. Everyday, morning till evening, nonsensical these things and they become fanatic. They start becoming absolutely fanatic about Sahaja yoga and this fanaticism can be very dangerous because they try to remember everything by heart this and that. No, not necessary. ... (Shri Adi Shakti Puja 1995)

You must know what you are. First of all introspect. Accordingly you should work it out, but this ritualism is not allowed in Sahaja Yoga all the time. ... (Christmas Puja 1997)


Thursday, November 15, 2012

DIWALI: we put lights all over - we put Sahaja Yoga everywhere...

" All these things are managed by Paramchaitanya.
 

I am doing nothing, I am Nishkriya . I'm just sitting down and watching. To me, nothing matters.
You see, it's working out slowly and steadily.
Ha!- if you tell Me something supposing, they said, "Mother, we prayed to You and it happened."
All right, maybe, these people {=Paramchaitanya, deities, gods, ganas} must have heard, around Me .
Not me, you see, and they must have done the job and for that I'm not responsible, in no way.
Like one lady in Mexico had a son, was very sick and was about to die. She wrote a letter to Me, three letters she wrote that, "My son is going to die, he's a young fellow, studying in Harvard." I didn't do anything. I never wrote to her. Fourth letter came that he's completely cured.
Now I didn't do that,  because I was just sitting in one place, and how is it, it has worked out.
So everything, you see, you think I do,  is not done by Me: is done by this Paramchaitanya
Because I'm also separated from you, completely, absolutely separated.
So they say, "You pray, now." You can pray.
If you pray, you pray to these deities that are around, you pray to all these ganas and all that, not to Me!
Because I have nothing to do with it.
You see, they don't tell Me that I have to do this or I have to do that, so why should I tell them do this or do that? It is like that.

And in that state only we can say you are in a Sahaja state, where you don't desire anything, you don't want anything;

I do everything  - all kinds of things, I am doing- like the sun is doing: I am also doing, in the sense that I'm looking after things, flowers, this that.
I am also receiving presents from you, I'm receiving this from you and then see, I don't receive anything. I don't have anything. I have no interest in it.
But you want to give for your joy, all right, have it! 

You want to put flowers, all right, you can have flowers. 
Even if there's flowers or not makes no difference tome as a person, I'm saying. But as Your Mother I love you. All of you I love.
But I don't do anything as such to love you. And everybody says, "Mother, You love us so much." When? When did I love you? I never even kissed you.
But you always say I love you very much. So what is this: who is working it out, this?
T'is something which is not me - beyond me.
This is the state in which, once we rise, we call it as Sahaja Stithi

In the Sahaja Stithi you think you are doing nothing. Everything is working out. 
But at this stage if I tell you, you say, "Oh, we are not doing anything. Why should we spread Sahaja Yoga, it's not our job?"
Just now, that's not your stithi, that's why.

Sahaj Sthiti
So you have to rise up to that state.
That's only possible when you are in the knowledge state, where you have self-knowledge, the knowledge of the whole world. 

But if you go beyond knowledge then you must have seen many a times, I just say something. I just say something and it is there.
I never feel vibrations of anyone or anything.I don't feel My Kundalini, either nor any chakras, nothing, but I know, know automatically like a computer.
But that computer also I am not. 

Just it's trouble, it's difficult to explain to you what is this stithi is because you have to achieve it.
Once you achieve it then you are in a very subtle state and that subtle state is nothing but bliss.
"To me, nothing matters."
But that bliss also you cannot enjoy. I don't know how to enjoy everything. 
Supposing now you say, "Jai Mataji." I forget even you are calling Me. I also say, "Jai Mataj!," finished!
See, it is such a simple thing one has to understand, that the state in which one has to rise is a state where without doing anything, everything works out.
If that is your state, all right.

But it's not so. 
So you have to rise up to that state by doing. First you have to do it.
First you have to know, and then knowledge has no need, you don't have to know, but first that has to be worked out and brought to that level.
From: DIWALI 1996.   
DIWALI 2007 UNCUT VERSION CLIK HERE
On the conditions to celebrate Shri Mataji, click here

Saturday, November 10, 2012

First reconcile, and then,...



Mary of Magdala- P.P. Rubens, 
So what is this puja supposed to be today? It's farewell puja today, so let's have it, just before the birth of Christ.
Let Christ be born within us. Let's be, like Him, the one who always insisted,
"Love your brothers. Love your sisters." Who are your brothers and sisters? He asked the question too, "Who are My brothers and sisters?"
"Sahajayogis are my brothers and sisters."
Somebody offered at the altar. He said, 
"What are you to offer at the altar? Have you reconciled with your brother?" 
Have you reconciled?
First reconcile,
and then,
bring flowers to Mother.

He said it already. Think of Him, how forgiving He was, how magnanimous, how great, and how He thought of His Father all the time, completely dedicated, doing His work.

So with all praises to Christ and to His Mother who worked in a very potential manner, we have to today within ourselves awaken that great spirit, which is actually the Aumkara.
Even the memory, even the idea of that is so joy-giving.
Let His life be reflected in your lives. You have to be true Christians.
1984-11/23: Shri Jesus Puja, Hounslow, UK

Sunday, November 4, 2012

"..my hands shake, when I see you quarrelling among yourselves...""

"""".And only through your bhakti, through your devotion and dedication, you can achieve me. My achievement is the complete manifestation of your Divine power. It’s very simple, made so simple.
I’m only pleased by people who are simple, innocent, who are not tricky, who are loving, affectionate to each other.
It’s very easy to please me: when I see you loving each other, talking good of each other, helping each other, respecting each other, laughing aloud together, enjoying together each other’s company, I get my first blessing, first joy. Try to love each other, in dedication to me, because you are all my children, created out of my love. In the womb of my love you all have resided. From my heart I have given you these blessings. 

I get disturbed, my hands shake,
when you fall back into the mire again, 
when I see you quarrelling among yourselves; 
jealousies and petty things which belong to your past life. (…) 
A deep love should exist. 
Selfishness has no place in Sahaja Yoga. 
Miserliness has no place, has no place. 
Miserliness is a sign of a very small mind.
I’m not saying you give me money, of course.  

But:  the way we look at money, the way we cling on to it, the material things, the material wealth, the material objects, the possessions, you see...The greatest possession you have is your Mother: through Her you have your brothers and sisters...
"Now the name of your Mother is very powerful. You know that it is the most powerful Name than all other names, the most powerful mantra. 
But you must know how to take it,
with that complete dedication you have to take that Name, not like any other name. 

Thursday, November 1, 2012

Don't care for the multitudes.

You are now Sahaja Yogis and must know that we have to develop as Sahaja Yogis. 
We have to make our vessel all right. 
We have to put our self on a pedestal, then onto a hilltop, and there, we have to show that we are Sahaja Yogis, and what we can achieve. 
There has to be a kind of a wisdom, a sense, a sensibility and sensitiveness towards all the atmosphere. 
We must know how far to go with people, how far to say something, how far to achieve something.
Not to go on sympathizing with nonsensical people! Just forget them! If they have to come, they’ll come to Sahaja Yoga.
 

Also I must tell you in the Heaven there are very few places. 
Don't care for the multitudes. 
Care for the quality. 
It is the privilege of very few to enter into the Kingdom of God. 
So forget your relationships and you forget all other people!
Get to Sahaja Yoga, get established in Sahaja Yoga and tell them that we have changed our religion; now we have become vishwa dharmis.
That will satisfy them that as we have become Christians and Muslims and Hindus, let us now become something else, because now we are not the same as we were; we are reborn again. 
And that’s how we have to give up all these funny ideas. 

1987-Dec20: Attention on Quality, Rahuri, India

Friday, October 19, 2012

Navaratri 3: Shraddha + Bhakti= Protection

Shraddha, faith.
Unless and until you develop that bhakti and shraddha within you, you cannot rise. You cannot rise above your problems, you cannot rise about your personality; because bhakti is something you cannot impose on anyone, you cannot force on anybody. 
Ah, you can make somebody mad and say that he can do bhakti - he cannot. You have to have all your qualities absolutely intact. You should be intelligent, you should be understanding, everything should be there.
Shri Ganesha worshipping ShivaLingam
But at that time this, the joy of bhakti is within you. And this joy of bhakti when it starts flowing, Goddess Herself enters into your being,
I should say, I have seen people, bhaktas, many great saints in India who achieved a lot of heights. They have gone too far into it, and if you read about them and if you understand them you are amazed how without any help, without any guidance, how could they go that deep and worship Devi?
Worshipping is not just out of sheer reading or some sort of a chanting or anything, but it's the deep attention of your heart, I think it's Spirit.
If the Spirit is awakened within you, you develop the bhakti and drop out all nonsensical ideas, all different things that have crawled into your head, but you just develop the bhakti.
.../...
Now we have through Kundalini awakening reached a very great height, I must say, of understanding of bhakti, the power of bhakti.
The greatest power of bhakti is that it protects you. It protects you. Those people who are suffering from any kind of trouble, any kind of problems, just get out of it because this bhakti of yours gives you the right type of understanding, the understanding of yourself. Also the understanding of surroundings, understanding of the whole universe, I should say.
Why people behave like this, why they are like this: all this can be solved through your bhakti. It should not be blind; it should not be blind but it should be wise bhakti, wise, with wisdom. Only possible through Sahaja Yoga, I think...
.../... But you are very few who have understood what is bhakti and what is shraddha.
In Ghent, Belgium.
So I would say the Goddess gives you bhakti and shraddha - by what? She gives you through your meditation, that you see so many miracles happening in your life and you are amazed how this has happened: "We never expected this to happen. How it has happened? How it has worked out?"
South Italy: Madonna with a stick !
Also She corrects you. 
All the time you, if you are aware, She corrects you and tells you:
"Don't go this way. You are going on the ego side", or She'll tell you, "You are going on the left side." She is the One who corrects throughout.
We get into diseases and all kinds of, we are trapped into all kinds of things; it is because, because we don't have bhakti.
In the bhakti you have to depend on the wisdom of the Mother, wisdom of the Shakti, that She looks after you, She finds you out the way, and She will help you. 
If you start becoming on your own and thinking that "I am all right, I can do this, I can do that," you'll find inevitably that you are wrong, that you had a very wrong idea about yourself and about the Divine.
Bogota, 1994
So, 
what is the most important point, is surrendering
The word "Islam" means surrender, but Mohammed Sahib has described what you should have before surrender, is your Realization.
But you have seen even after Realization people take time to settle down. 
But once you are settled down you understand that you are under a protection of the Goddess, that you see every day how it works and how it helps you. Many people who are in Sahaja Yoga, so-called, have great respect for Me but are not fully there. Then they suffer and they have problems, and then they ask Me, "Mother, how is it I have got this problem?" 
 I don't tell them, because you can't tell anything to human beings, you see, they're very aggressive.
But the fact is because, because you are not one with the Divine. And with the Divine if you are one, you'll have nothing but compassion and love, nothing else, and everything you will do so smoothly, so nicely.

Ganesha and ShivaLingam
People may not understand, like they crucified Christ, they did all kinds of things, agreed! but now you should ask for the protection of the Goddess, because that is the greatest quality of the Goddess, that She protects you from all problems, from all troubles, from all kinds of nonsensical, I should say, things that can happen to you. And there's so many things that happen.
I'll tell you, I was told that one of the leaders, a Sahaja Yogi, was killed. I said, "Not possible!" And the fellow was in Rome; he was not killed. So it's not possible that a young man should be killed like that. Of course if somebody is old you have to die; but that he was killed was not a right thing.
So it is the protection, not only physical, mental, emotional, but spiritual protection comes to you; spiritual protection, in that what you do is that you don't do wrong things, you don't kill anybody, you don't torture anybody, you are not rude to anybody. That is the situation into which you all can enter, because you are Sahaja Yogis. You can achieve it, you have a power to do it, because you have so much shraddha and so much understanding that you have reached a certain state of protection, of growth, of wisdom.
Now first test your wisdom, you must test your wisdom:
"If I am doing this, is this wise? Is it good?
Why I'm doing it?"
First test your wisdom. Then you'll find out that many things you do which are wrong, which should not have been done. But first your wisdom must develop, and you must see that your wisdom works and helps you.
.../.... But if you have the wisdom, then you will immediately know that this is wrong. Apart from that you will be saved from all kinds of problems. It's a fact, I have seen with so many people like that who have been saved, not only from death, but from all kinds of catastrophes, all kinds; and I was amazed how these Sahaja Yogis are helped by the Divine.
 The Bird of Athena can see  through the Night
Divine is a power, everywhere it exists, 
but it will only help the people who are Sahaja Yogis, who are divine,
not the people who are not; it will never help them. 
On the contrary it might punish in a way that is never expected.
Introspect!
So one has to be careful to test oneself, what I call introspection.
Have you been wise in dealing with certain problems?
What has been your style? Is it money-oriented, or it is domination-oriented?
What sort of a power it was that you were working under?
You have to introspect to find out. And you'll be amazed, very much amazed that even in the name of God you can do wrong things.
 .../... First, overpower yourself!
You have to know yourself first of all. What's the use of overpowering others? Those who do not know how to overpower themselves are always miserable, always in trouble, because it reacts. 
If you try to overpower others, it reacts.
For that you have to be absolutely introspecting, again and again I have been saying this,
that:  introspect!
(2002-Oct-27: Navaratri Puja, Lake Piru, CA, USA)

Monday, October 15, 2012

Navaratri 2 : COURAGE, NOT FEAR !

I'll tell you a story about somebody in America.
He is a very old Sahaja Yogi, Indian.
He came out of his shop, where he was working, and got into his car - there was one man sitting with a dagger. And he hit him with the dagger on the center Heart. And this fellow started bleeding. He said, " I don't know what happened to me, Mother. I got such strength, I caught hold of him and I started fighting with him, and I took the dagger from him. He had the handle and the dagger came into my hand.
And the fellow ran away. But still I was not worried about my bleeding.
What I did - I called my colleague who was coming out of the car, I ran after him and he took me in his car for half-an-hour searching that fellow."
They didn't go to the police, and then, they went to the police.
The police was surprised - the whole shirt was full of blood. He said, "Nobody would believe." Even the police was shocked. "For half an hour you were searching this fellow. Why didn't you come to the police?" He said, "It would have taken half-an-hour for you to come, so we thought, better do it ourselves." See the courage!
Then, of course, he was taken to the hospital, and he was all right. Just they stitched him up. But he is all right. That is the sign of a person who can never get any one of these horrible diseases, because there is no fear in his mind, of any kind. And, he is an Indian, he said: "I have never even slapped my own children. I have never fought with anyone. I am not a wrestler by any chance, nothing of the kind. But it happened." He says, " I don't know how, from where I got this shakti; and how I did it, I just don't know."
"  they were never afraid of attacking someone"
There are many stories like this they can tell you about Sahaja Yogis, and about so many saints, how they were never afraid of attacking someone when somebody attacks them, or of protecting themselves from all kinds of horrible things with their courage.
This is something one cannot believe sometimes, but it is happening, every day, I get letters from people how they have been courageous.
Imam Hussein at Kerbala.
If you believe in the Goddess, then know that She is extremely powerful; She is very intelligent; and if She has to protect you, She will protect you out and out, in such a way that you will not know how you have been protected. 

But this faith has to be developed.
Faith has to be developed by experience also, how you have been protected always; how you have been helped always; how you came out of so many crises.
But despite that if you get upset, worried, if some clouds appear in the sky of your life, then if you get upset, that means you are still weak.
So first thing, if you are really worshipping the Goddess, then you should have no worry at all of any kind, and you should have no fear at all. Go ahead, fearlessly.
Whatever you are doing, do it fearlessly.
But at the same time I have to tell you the other side, that one should not go about like a zombie, it doesn't mean that; saying all kinds of nonsensical things of the right side.

But if you have to do something, do it with clear-cut ideas, and also without any fear. 

(1994, 10-09, Navaratri, Cabella.)


FOR MORE ON THIS QUESTIONS, CLICK: http://swayamblog.blogspot.fr/p/how-not-to-react-and-fight-lessons-on.html

Thursday, October 11, 2012

THE GODDESS OF CONFUSION: your discriminating power is challenged.


So, one can get possessed by any such idea. See, like Hitler: he got the idea that he is the monarch of everything and he has every right to destroy the Jews. And he was destroying, he destroyed so many people.
But what happened at the end?- he was using swastika which was the symbol of Shri Ganesh, and with that he was fighting. But luckily it so happened that the Mother entered into his mind. 
By that he lost: bhraanti, illusions, he lost the power of Ganesha, how to use it. And he was using stencil, and because of the stencil the second, I should say, printing of swastika was the other way round, which was for destruction. So he printed the other kind of swastika. As a result he got destroyed.

So this is the bhraanti part, that She enters into your mind and puts you into a bhraanti, means into an illusion. You commit mistakes.
If it had not happened so many people would have been finished by now. So She enters into the mind of such people who are trying to destroy human beings, who are trying to destroy anything, and puts ideas in such a manner that they die or they get self-destruction.
That's why it is written that She is a bhraanti within us. She creates such an illusion within us that, that a person who tries to be harmful, to be troublesome, to be destructive gets destroyed.
All kinds of things She can put, and that's how so many people have survived in this world. Otherwise so many would have been finished, and there would have been the kingdom of the Satan. But it's this Goddess is the one who saves us.
Symbolically they have said that She has killed so many demons. Actually She has, it's not that She has killed them in a symbolic way. There were demons and demons: Even today we have demonic people, and all of them will not only be killed but will be finished forever. .../...

Now supposing there is a person who is very demonic, who is going to destroy everyone. Then, the people who are wise will understand, but those who are not will take to her and get destroyed within. Like this thousands of people have been destroyed, because they didn't see the right point, they couldn't understand what is right, what is wrong.
So this idea of right and wrong also is completely confused by Her, so that those who are wrong type can be destroyed.
We don't want them on this earth: those who are troublesome, who are destructive, who are argumentative will be all destroyed. But by themselves only they'll destroy, so it's not necessary for the Goddess to do that.
So this is the one which many people ask Me, "Why it is said that 'bhraanti rupena samsthita'? Why does She exist as an illusion?"
This is the reason, that your discriminating power is challenged.
But if you are a Sahaja yogi, real Sahaja yogi, then you can feel on your fingertips if the person whom you are following is a good man or a bad man. And then you can tell others also that "don't!"
So many seekers are destroyed like that. Wrong type of gurus came and they just followed them. Stupid they were, absolutely stupid gurus, and these were stupid people. I don't know why they followed them. It was so obvious that they were just after some sort of a Rolls Royce or something. And I have seen them so mad that they can't get out of it.
.../...  Now the time has come for all of us to understand that you are all Sahaja yogis, and you have a very big responsibility - very, very big responsibility that you should do what your enlightened conscience tells you. Take to your enlightenment and live under that light, and don't jump in the darkness.
And by that you will also understand who is the right person, who is not the right person.

It's a - even in Sahaja Yoga this negativity can work. It works; and one should not get involved into any negative thoughts of others or negative doing of others
I's a warning today I wanted to give you all, because you people are very much there to enjoy.

Look after your attention - where does it go? There're so many beautiful things: see the flowers so beautiful, see this thing they have made so beautiful, it makes My heart jump with joy; while some people don't even notice.
The other day I asked somebody who had made that flower arrangement. "Which flower?"
I said, "The one that was there."
"-Which one?"
So I told the names of the flowers: "We never saw!"
Where were you looking but that you couldn't see the flowers?  - Because your eyes are so stupid that they cannot see the beauty. They are engulfed with all kinds of negative things.
2000, 10-08, Cabella.
"If you are... a real Sahaja Yogi... then you can feel..."

Saturday, September 29, 2012

" you must know that as I depend on you, you also depend on Me"

In Genova, 2010
Do you know, I entirely depend on you ?  
Do you know that? That My complete existence is there because of sahaja yogis, otherwise I would be finished. And this moment, perhaps you do not know:
I would not exist in this body, if you people give Me up, is a fact which I must accept and you must (consider). 
Anyway, because, see, now if you do not take My Vibrations, there will all be here, frozen, I will become a frozen mummy, only emitting Vibrations. That’s all. I won’t be speaking to you . It happens. 
Amarnath Ice Lingam
 Now, see the left nabhi is just now, I‘m catching very hard. You have to take out My Vibrations. If you do not [suck] my Vibrations, I’m not going to exist any more as a human being walking, you see? 
As something else maybe, but not as a human being as you see. I'll be just frozen. 
If you do that to Me, imagine, how (much) I should owe to you? 
I mean, My existence is because of you. Perhaps you don’t know, do you know? That I am here on this Earth only because of you, otherwise I would have been very nicely somewhere else!
But then also you must know that as I depend on you, you also depend on Me!
But more I depend on your collectivity.
The moment you start becoming unaware of your collectivity, immediately cancer starts going in My body. I get physical troubles because of that. So the collectivity is not what you think of yourself, to be something great. It's not that you are above everything and you are this and you are that. 
Guru Puja 2008.
How much you have done to enhance the collectivity of understanding, of love?
Because say if My- this- hand doesn't know this hand, now what do I do? If we are a living body, just think of it. I mean, if I do not know my one eye to another eye, if there's no connection, what will happen to it? 
And when you do all this, it becomes a funny personality out of Me, you see. I don't know how to manage Myself.
So to sustain this interdependence you must learn to depend on each other. Now coming to the practical side of it I've already told you to think all the time of another person in a loving manner, not in a criticizing manner, not seeing to the loopholes of a person.
1979-06/05: About Collectivity, Dollis Hill, London, UK
INTROSPECTION: click for more